how to get over anxiety fear
How to get over my anxiety of my first sexual intercourse?

My boyfriend and I have been dating over a year now. I really want him to be my first sexual partner (I am a virgin and he is not a virgin). He never pressures me to do any that is sexual; he always ask.When we attempts of having sex,I always get nervous; it’s like my body and mind does not always communicate together.How can I get over my fear of having sex?

What that last person said is not true. It never hurt me, and I always said no until I was ready. In fact when I said I was ready, he said no, because he didnt believe me. That is a real friend. IF you are still apprehensive you should continue to wait. There are plenty of other pleasurable things you can do in the meanwhile, and they feel just as good. Sex is just more of a like mental connection with someone, virginity is a frame of mind. And remember you can never take it back once you do it. So take it slow. That way you have no regrets like me. I highly suggest however being with a virgin too your first time, when you are with someone who thinks they already know what they are doing it’s not as fun. It still feels just as good but the mental connection is just so important for a girl. Sometimes doing other things feels better anyway. And I would say, as flattering as it is, that anyone who asks is being too forward. Dont let your first time be a dud. You’ll remember it forever.